September 9

Sewn Hearts

Loving someone and pleasing someone are two different things

- Jerry Jampolski

The mother knew that her teenage son was involved with some unsavory people and affairs.  She remained silent when he started wearing expensive clothes.  She turned her head when he flashed the money.  She drew the line when she found the bloody clothes and the gun in the basement.  The next morning she called the police and had her only son arrested.  When the social worker asked her how she felt about what she had done, she replied, "It is a lot easier for me to visit him every week in prison than it would be for me to take one trip to the cemetery."  In all of our relationships there comes a time when we must do what we know is right.  If we love someone, we want the best for them.  It may not make them happy; it probably won't be easy; but loving someone does not mean allowing them to hurt themselves.  It certainly doesn't mean you must allow them to hurt you.

 --  Iyanla Vanzant 

In loving you I will not lose myself

 

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