September 5

The only way to have peace in a relationship is to know how to butter your own bread.

 - Ra-Ha

 
 
 

If you are in a relationship that causes you imbalance and anguish, get out.  If you are in a relationship that does  not support you or lowers your energy, leave it alone.  If you are in a relationship where you give more than you get, where what you give is not respected, where the security you seek is costing you peace of mind, you've got nothing else to lose -- so leave.  We come together in relationships to grow, not to live in misery.  Our relationships should be sustaining, energizing and growth-supporting.  When they are not, our growth is stunted, our energy is depleted and our personality distorted.  A solid, loving, supportive relationship is like a shot of life.  It is a source of inspiration, it provides a spark of motivation to encourage you onto the highest evolution of your selfhood.  If you are in a relationship in which you are happy sometimes, sad most of the time, struggling to figure out what to do, and how to make it last, you are out of place.

 

 --  Iyanla Vanzant 

I know when to quit

 

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