Some kids do what you say.  Some kids do what you say do not do.  But all kids do what you do.

- Unknown

 

A thirteen-year-old was sent to the cleaners.  She was told to go straight there; she did.  But she did not come straight home.  On the trip home from the cleaners, she became involved in an egg fight.  More than a half dozen eggs ended upon a $300 suit.  She took the suit home, rolled it up, put it in a plastic bag and hid it in the closet.  Three days later when she was asked about the suit, she started to cry and produced the bag with the festering suit from the closet.  The child is still alive with all of her limbs intact.  The parent took a deep breath and reminded herself: There are times when I do not follow instructions; I do not always admit my mistakes and try to cover them up.  When I am put on the spot, I cry.  Whenever I am confronted with something I've done wrong, I usually don't lie.  If we really want to understand why our children behave the way they do, we must take a long, hard, honest look at ourselves.

 --  Iyanla Vanzant 

 

When I see my children I see myself.

 

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