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How many times have you heard someone say, "That's just
the way I am," Or "I can't change." How about,
"This is me, take it or leave it!" Oh, how we
fight to hold onto what limits us. Don't we
realize, if our way worked, it would be working.
Can't we see that holding on to what "I am" keeps us
from realizing who we are? It is natural to resist
change. It is insane to fight against it.
For some reason we believe if we have to change, there
must be something wrong with the way we are. The
issue is not right or wrong. The issue is working
or not working. Everything must change. The
best can always be better. The fast becomes
fastest. The great becomes the greatest.
When we make minor adjustments as we see they are
needed, we save time and the expense of a major
overhaul.
-- Iyanla Vanzant
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