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Are
you stuck in your first
relationship? Your fifth?
Your last?
Most of us are stuck in the memory,
deals, pain or trauma of a past
relationship.
We hold everyone responsible for the
things someone did to us in the
yesteryear. We can't seem to
put the baggage down, overcome the
disappointment or forgive the past.
We can't figure out why we end up in
a similar relationship, the
identical situation or with a broken
heart.
What we draw to ourselves is
what we are! If we are
hurt, angry, in pain, confused,
disappointed or lonely, we will
attract mates who will bring more of
what we already are. We
can only draw to ourselves the
beings on our ray. If our
ray is dark and dismal we will
attract our reflection.
If we want to move beyond the pain
of past relationships, we must stop
crying about them. Stop
thinking about them. Stop
drawing them to us.
Forgive, let go and move on.
When we move beyond where we are,
the past cannot follow.
--
Iyanla Vanzant |
