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July 31
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Let them wait
and wait they do.
- Jackee |
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All relationships are
like contractual
agreements. Each
party expects to receive
certain things. In
our intimate
relationships, sex is
like a signature on the
contract.
Unfortunately, many of
us sign the contract
without reading the fine
print. By the time
we discover what kind of
deal we are offered, we
are bound by our
signature. Some
contracts have a
ninety-day grace period.
This gives the parties
the opportunity to
examine the merchandise,
test the service, make
any necessary
adjustments or bow out
of the agreement.
It makes sense to apply
a grace period to our
intimate relationships.
We may need time to
assess behavior, true
intentions and the
performance history of
the prospects. The
fine-print issues such
as habits, motive and
background cannot be
seen with closed eyes.
-- Iyanla Vanzant
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I am willing to read the
fine print. |
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