|
 We
can become so
emotionally charged by a
person that we allow
ourselves to be intimate
before we know who that
person really is.
When we give our bodies
to another being, we are
giving them a piece of
our souls. We
might want to take the
time to find out if they
deserve it. Sexual
activity is not the only
way to let someone know
we like them.
Sharing information,
supporting each other's
goals, giving of our
time and energy without
expectations sends a
much stronger message
than sex. We must
take time to know the
other person; understand
what they want, where
they are going and
figure out if we want to
be in the same place.
When we let down our
hair too early in the
game we are apt to end
up with a messed up
head.
-- Iyanla Vanzant |
