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Most of us know
exactly what it is that creates the
pain, confusion, stagnation and
disruption in our lives. Whether
it is a habit, behavior, relationship or
fear, we know. Unfortunately, we
seem powerless to stop whatever it is.
Sometimes we believe we don't have the
discipline or will power to stop.
The behavior becomes so habitual we do
it without thinking. Other times
we know exactly what it is and what we
do, but we simply keep doing it anyway.
We are the only ones responsible for
what goes on in our lives. We can
make excuses and blame others, but we
are responsible to and for ourselves.
When we find something or someone
creating in our lives that which we do
not want, we must muster the courage and
strength to stop it.
-- Iyanla Vanzant |