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We have such poor
images of ourselves that we have
difficulty understanding the good others
see in us. When someone gives us a
compliment, we are quick to point out
what is wrong. When someone
supports or encourages us, we remind
them of our failures. We play
ourselves down to such a
degree that others begin to question the
faith they have placed in us. This
vicious cycle can only lower our already
low self-esteem. Today is a good
time to rethink our thoughts about
ourselves. We can accept the
compliments we receive when we give them
to ourselves first. We can build
our confidence by celebrating our small
victories and successes. We can
support the faith and trust others have
in us by supporting and having faith in
ourselves. It all begins with our
willingness to acknowledge that we are
really fine, just the way we are.
-- Iyanla Vanzant |
