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Jealousy is the surest way to get rid of
the person you are afraid of losing.
When you say I love you, it means "I
want the very best for you whether or
not I am included." You must
acknowledge any feelings of jealousy to
understand what they are. Jealousy
is a signpost of the longings in your
subconscious mind. It reminds you
that what you are longing is also
longing you. There are only two
emotions, love and fear. When
jealousy comes up, stop and recognize
that it is actually fear raising its
ugly head. Fear of losing someone
or something, fear that there is not
enough. If you allow yourself to
be jealous, you cannot love. It is
important to acknowledge all your
feelings and not beat yourself up for
having them. Your feelings are not
good or bad, they just are.
Jealousy is simply reminding you that
you are worthy of the best. When
you remember who you are, the jealousy
will dissolve and you will be ready to
receive what you want.
-- Iyanla Vanzant |
