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Relationships do not just happen.
No
matter how we meet our mate or who makes the
introduction, we create all the
relationships we experience.
We each
have the capacity to bring to ourselves the
exact relationship we want.
Unfortunately, most of us are not willing to
do the work.
We must begin the work by
looking at the "self" and getting clear
about how it feels.
We cannot expect
to attract a loving, generous mate if we are
angry and withholding.
We must stop
blaming the past for our condition now.
Where we are, what we have or don't have is
no one's fault but our own. If by
change someone else made a contribution to
the mess we are creating, forgive them the
mess and move on.
Finally,
we must give thanks for all we have been;
all we have had, all we are becoming.
When we
take the limits, restrictions and fears off
our hearts, our cup of love will run over.
- Iyanla Vanzant |
