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No
matter what they have
done
to
you
and said
to you,
you cannot
stop loving
them.
No matter how
much they
disappoint you, neglect
or abuse you, if you
think you love
them, you probably do.
It does
not matter what others
say about
them, how others feel
about them
or how bad you feel about
them; if you
love them, admit it.
Do not tell
yourself you do not
love somebody
if you do. What
you might want
to do is make a choice
about
whether you want this
person to be a
part of your life.
It is not
necessary to stop loving
people if you
don't like them.
You can choose the
type of relationship you
want to
have with the people
you love. You
can love them from a
distance.
You can love them
and not live with
them. You can love
them in the
deepest part of your
being
and choose to move on.
You can figure
out why you love them,
if you love them and
still choose to move on.
You can love them for
who they are and what
they are and stop
complaining.
-- Iyanla Vanzant |
