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Nobody likes being
rejected, but rejection does not
mean there is
something wrong with
you. An early rejection
can save you a great
deal of grief later on.
Then
there are those times when what
you have
is not really what you want,
but you convince yourself to
settle for it
anyway. Well, if the other
person rejects you, you are
saved from
having to run away. Rejection
is only damaging when you start
out
believing you are not complete.
When you enter a relationship
needy
and unfulfilled, rejection
can be a damaging blow. In
those situations
you must not shrink away
feeling defeated and afraid; you
must ask
what is it that this person has,
and why you don't think you can
get it
anywhere else. If you
understand
that you can only draw to
yourself
what you already are, you
can see rejection in another
light. When
you enter any relationship, you
want to be and feel the best you
can.
If you get rejected, it might simply
mean you have a little more work
to do.
--
Iyanla Vanzant
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